Questions to Ask Your Crush
Interesting, not intense. There is a difference.
- Players
- 2 players
- Length
- 10–25 min
- Cost
- Free · no signup
- Long distance
- Works long distance
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Interesting, not intense. There is a difference.
- Players
- 2 players
- Length
- 10–25 min
- Intensity
- Sweet
Free · No signup · Nothing you answer is saved
How do you play Questions to Ask Your Crush?
Good questions to ask your crush are specific and light rather than deep — "What is something you are unreasonably good at?" gets a story and a laugh where "What are you looking for?" gets a careful answer. Send one at a time, answer it yourself first, and follow up on anything interesting instead of moving on.
How to play
- One question at a time, especially over text.
- Answer it yourself first if you are sending it — it makes it a conversation, not a survey.
- Follow up on anything interesting rather than moving to the next.
- Do not send three in a row. That is the fastest way to kill it.
- Stop while it is still going well.
Why couples love this game
The best crush conversations are not deep, they are specific. Asking what someone is unreasonably good at gets you a real story, a laugh, and a follow-up — where asking what they are looking for gets you a careful answer and an exit.
The crush stage has one rule: be interesting without being intense. Ask nothing real and you stay in small talk forever. Ask something heavy and you have made it weird, and it stays weird.
Every question here sits in that gap. They are genuinely curious rather than probing, they give the other person something fun to answer, and none of them assume anything about where this is going.
They work in a message, in a queue, or across a table — which is the point, because at this stage you do not get to pick the setting.
Example questions
- What is something you are unreasonably good at?
- What did you get obsessed with recently?
- What is the best thing that has happened to you this month?
- What would you do with a completely free Saturday?
- What is a strong opinion you hold about something trivial?
- What is the last thing that genuinely made you laugh?
The full game has 22 of these, shuffled every time you play.
Who this game is best for
- Texting someone new
- A first or second date
- Dating app conversations that have gone flat
- Anyone who overthinks what to say next
Tips to make it better
- One at a time. This is the only rule that matters over text.
- Answer your own question first. It is generous and it makes replying easy.
- Abandon the deck the moment a real conversation starts.
- Nothing here is heavy on purpose. Save the heavy ones for months from now.
Frequently asked questions
What should I ask my crush over text?
One specific, easy-to-answer question at a time, and answer it yourself first. "What did you get obsessed with recently?" works far better than anything that asks them to define the situation.
How do I avoid making it weird?
Stay off intent. Nothing here asks what you are, where this is going, or about their past relationships — those are the three that turn a nice conversation into a negotiation.
How many questions should I send?
One. Then have a conversation. Sending several at once reads as a form and gets answered like one.