Restaurant Questions
For the gap between ordering and the food arriving.
- Players
- 2 players
- Length
- 20–60 min
- Cost
- Free · no signup
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For the gap between ordering and the food arriving.
- Players
- 2 players
- Length
- 20–60 min
- Intensity
- Sweet
Free · No signup · Nothing you answer is saved
How do you play Restaurant Questions?
Restaurant questions for couples are sized for a table — short enough to ask without holding a phone, interesting enough to last until the food arrives, and safe to answer with strangers nearby. Food-related questions work best as openers because everyone has an answer. Three or four across a meal is plenty.
How to play
- One card per course, or whenever the table goes quiet.
- Read it out and put the phone face down immediately.
- Both answer. Whoever drew it goes second.
- Abandon the deck the moment the conversation runs on its own.
- Three or four across a whole meal is plenty.
Why couples love this game
The lull twenty minutes into a meal is not a sign anything is wrong — it is just that you already covered the obvious things in the taxi. One genuinely different question resets the table, and the food-related ones work because everybody has an answer and nobody has to think.
There is a specific twenty minutes at a restaurant table where the ordering is done, the phones are away by mutual agreement, and neither of you has anything new to say because you spent the day together.
These are for that gap. Every question is short enough to ask without producing a phone for long, interesting enough to last until the starters, and safe to answer with strangers at the next table.
Nothing here is heavy. A restaurant is the wrong place for the difficult conversation, and this deck knows it.
Example questions
- What is the best meal you have ever eaten, and who were you with?
- If you had to eat one cuisine forever, which?
- What would you order here if money did not matter?
- What is a food you pretended to like to impress someone?
- What did your family eat every week without fail?
- What is the worst restaurant experience you have had?
The full game has 22 of these, shuffled every time you play.
Who this game is best for
- Any restaurant, from a first date to a twentieth anniversary
- Couples who spend the whole meal on logistics
- Long waits between courses
- Anyone who feels self-conscious using a question deck in public
Tips to make it better
- Phone face down straight after reading. Holding it changes the whole tone.
- Start with a food question. They are the easiest and warm the table up.
- Do not raise anything difficult here. Wrong venue, wrong audience.
- Three or four per meal. This is seasoning.
Frequently asked questions
What should couples talk about at dinner?
Anything that is not logistics. The trap is spending the meal on schedules and admin because that is what you already have momentum on from the day.
Is it awkward to use a question list at a restaurant?
Only if you keep holding the phone. Read one out, put it face down, and it reads as having thought of something rather than consulting a list.
Can we use these for a difficult conversation?
No, and nothing here invites one. A restaurant is the wrong venue — the audience and the interruptions make it worse, not easier.